
Do not view anxiety negatively, do not deny it – use it for empowerment.
Anxiety is the green light to seek true purpose
Anxiety is frequently viewed in a negative light – categorized as a weakness or an illness. However, it’s essential to recognize that anxiety is an intrinsic aspect of our existence. To experience emotions and thoughts is to encounter anxiety. How can you not be anxious when it is a natural response to a confusing and uncertain existence that you did not ask to be a part of? The key is to try living with-and-through your anxiety as you move forward into the unknown, and make those leaps of faith toward what you genuinely believe gives life its purpose and meaning, even in the face of mortality.
Recognising sources of anxiety
These might include misunderstandings due to different styles of communication and unexpected criticism. Unexpected sensory inputs can lead to prolonged stress like being expected to wear ill-fitting clothes but not being able (or allowed) to get changed. Disorganisation regarding financial matters, schedules, and deadlines can also pose difficulties. Additionally, issues related to self-esteem may arise, especially when we are denied the fundamental understanding that we often lack. This includes instances of disbelief, invalidation, and gaslighting when attempting to articulate our unique sensory experiences, as well as the perpetual need to justify our existence.
How to manage anxiety
To manage your anxiety you need to develop a noble quest. Just as a ship must leave harbour, you have to let go of something in order to move forward toward your purpose, for instance from overstimulation to spaciousness. This might involve actions like deactivating your TikTok account or abstaining from consuming news incessantly. Be aware of what you are looking at, and what you are listening to, You need to limit the amount of overstimulation coming into your senses. Otherwise, it becomes a white noise preventing you from attending to what you need to do.
What happens next?
Set your mind for self-reflection, introspection and exploration. Let go of the need to be liked, and focus instead on just being good. Cultivate a genuine sense of individuality rooted in principles rather than being swayed by external influences. Embracing this ethical code will enable you to transition from distraction to focused concentration on self-reflection, introspection, and exploration. In the present moment, your thoughts will find clarity, and your anxiety will gradually dissipate.
Happiness
Your happiness isn’t contingent upon obtaining everything you desire; it’s rooted in your mental state. Meditation serves as a means to safeguard your own happiness. In fact, it’s a pivotal factor in fostering the happiness of others as well. This isn’t to diminish your importance, but rather to emphasize the significance of aligning your own happiness with that of those around you. Your well-being resonates with others, highlighting the interconnectedness of happiness within a community.
Purposelessness
Chinese philosophy perceives Nature as devoid of a specific purpose, which, in the Western context, might be seen as negative. However, the Chinese view purposelessness as a form of praise. It’s akin to the continuous waves gently lapping against the shore, an eternal process without inherent meaning. Have you ever taken a walk with no particular destination in mind? At that moment, you embody perfect rationality because you’ve embraced purposelessness.
All music, too, is purposeless. If the goal of music were merely to reach the final note, then the best musician would be the fastest one. The same principle applies to dancing; the objective of dance is to dance itself. This perspective extends to your life as well, emphasizing the value of living in the present moment without constantly fixating on a future goal or outcome.
Let wisdom be your true purpose
Many individuals grapple with the notion that life must have a predefined purpose. Religious leaders often advocate following God’s purpose, yet when asked to define it, they often remain silent. Here lies a choice: Will you place your trust in Nature’s purposelessness, or will you opt for a path filled with rules, regulations, laws, and obligations in an attempt to find meaning?
To truly live, one must have faith and trust in the unknown, in a Nature devoid of a boss figure, for a boss implies a system of mistrust. There is a profound wisdom to be gained from experiencing moments of anxiety and insecurity. It’s a wisdom that is hard-earned, and it can become your authentic purpose – embracing the uncertainty and unpredictability of life as a means of personal growth and fulfillment.







